Bridging the Lineage

A Father and adult Son Weekend Retreat - ages 18 and older
February 27- March 1, 2009
Cal-Wood Retreat Center (near Boulder, CO)

In our work, men have shown us how deeply important their fathers are to them. Often, when a man explores his wounds and unfulfilled longings, his own father is at the base of them.

Many times, a man’s limitations, his self-destructive patterns, his unrealized dreams, are rooted in his relationship with his father. Men frequently—often subconsciously—idolize their absent dads. They put their dreams on hold, decade after decade, waiting for the love and approval that only a father can give.

Because the father/son relationship throughout the lifespan is so important, we have organized a weekend retreat specifically in support of men and their adult sons.

We will explore some of the deeper issues of their relationships and look together at their life stories in a spirit of mutual understanding and growth.

There will be time for men to be witnessed in the shared story of the lifelong journey with their fathers. The spirit will be one of openness and healing. Truths will be welcome, with the provision that each man is ultimately responsible for the decisions of his life. Feelings, thoughts and actions are to be owned, and embraced as each man’s unique passage here on earth.

Together we will look at our male lineages and explore our ancestral connections. Fathers and sons will take their appropriate positions in the family story. An awareness of this alignment is a simple, yet powerful way for men to appreciate where they come from, and where they are going.

Fathers and sons will have time away from each other, with the other fathers or sons, to do personal work. In some cases, the stories and processes need to be separate, with more orchestrated encounters when fathers and sons come back together.

There will be a spirit of celebration. Each of the fathers, and their sons, (or stepfathers and sons-in-law, uncles and nephews) will gain a new understanding of this most primary relationship.

In the power of council, ritual and soulful community, the beauty of fathers and sons will bless us all.

Details:

Staff
Led by: Tom Daly, Ph.D., and Keith Fairmont. You can view biographies of our staff here.

Cost

We offer a sliding scale registration ranging from $475-650 per person. We ask that you pay what you can afford and help with scholarships if you can. We know that this program is worth $650, but we want to ensure that anyyone who wishes to attend is not held back due to financial considerations. A minimum non-refundable deposit of $150 is required to hold your reservation and assure you of a spot in this gathering. Meals are included. Space limited to twenty participants.

If you wish to set up a payment plan or inquire about a scholarship, please arrange with the MLA office prior to the event.

Or you can print, fill-out, and mail your registration using the form below. Please include your deposit or registration fee by check made payable to "Men's Leadership Alliance".

  Printable MLA Registration Form

Further Information

Download the brochure for this program

For more information or other inquiries please contact us